Love, Success and Be Rich!

The ultimate goal in life is "love". Either you want to give your love to others, or it can be receiving all the love others offer to you. In the past, Gautama Buddha, Jesus, Nabi Mohammad, Mahatma Ghandi, Mother Teresa and many more, live their life by giving the love to the people....and they achieve their ultimate goal in life.
We might have different priority in who we want to offer our love. It can be "small" love, just for oneself, thinking only for yourself, and soon or later you are too attached with personal gain, then people quote you as "selfish". It can be "big" love, you care about the people you know, your family members, your friends, your colleagues, your spiritual associates and whoever ask for your help, and then you are being quoted as "kind". It can be "infinity" love, you are willing to give your services to every human being that is in need regardless of their races, nationality, educational level, gender or age - giving them your sincere smile, preaching them goodness, bring happiness to their inner world by sharing your life wisdom, and forgotten about your "self".
Check this out about "Happiness is not Outside you" by Dr. David R Hawkins http://youtube.com/watch?v=8P0xr6AThWQ&feature=related

Success means different for many people, it is merely the gap from your "present" stage to "future" goals. Once you achieve it, then you can feel the success in you. Then you can set another new goals.... I cherish every moment in life when I consider an incident is a success for me. Recent teambuilding is a success for me because I see some participants bringing out their very best as a "person", breaking down the defences of wearing mask infront of others. More importantly, "their success is my success" as well :) So, write down all the successes in your "happiness book", so that your great memory will stay forever, even leaving a good legacy for your children, grandchildren, great grandchildren to read it....this blog should serve that purpose for me...:)

Getting rich is Great! My past experience in life does not create and store good files about "money". Thus, I am always stuck in between if money brings love and happiness to life. Recent discovery understands that money is a form of energy, and it is a positive and higher level of energy. Then it should be congruent with the ultimate goal in life to have meaningful love, success and happiness in life. So getting rich and have more money is a high energy mind state and its is great!!! Yesterday I witness a situation when my client wanted to promote an executive to be a manager, and we are about to offer her a new salary which is much higher than her previous pay. To my surprise she rejected and asked for a lower salary. WOW! In all my past practice, this is the first time I encountered such employee. We do not have much time to negotiate more about it, however I discover there must be some "money files" in her mind that had been "infected by virus". This is an interesting discovery (the diagram) , the higher your energy level in life, you are more positive and happy!

So, receive and offer your love moments to moments, cherish every success we had (be it small, medium or big), and enjoy being RICH! :)

Make any sense?

Mentor-Mentee Program

I realised the truth in what my mentor once told me - "One way of motivating yourself is to motivate others". Through the recent M2M interview I realised that "One way of helping myself is to help others". Everyone that came for the interview had inspired me in some way - the zest in life, the strong beliefs in pursuing the goal, the breakthrough to achieve what they want, and also the eagerness to live their life to the fullest. It reflected to me many of my past experiences and actually boosted my motivation as well.

Honestly speaking, the M2M program is just a "pilot" test for me to help those that really think I can be their mentor guiding them along their career path. My initial plan is to provide a platform for undergraduates/graduates for continuous personal improvement - it can be in terms of their mindset, attitude, knowledge or skills which will enhanced their future undertakings. Of course, mentee need to go through their own personal breakthrough to achieve their goals, I am merely a "coach" to help.

As a start, I want to accept only 5 of the shortlisted candidate. After the interviews, I might take 6 -8 so that this "Career Success Circle" can be meaningful and effective for ideas-sharing. I would say the best part of this M2M program is to provide on-going mentoring through 121 / face to face coaching or telecasting facilitation. This is a individual coaching where I am willing to sacrifice my time to help those that really want to help themselves.

If I were offer such program, I will really do WIT (Whatever It Takes) to be one of the member, what more it is totally FREE!!! Somehow many does not grasp the opportunity to complete the first assignment and left out.....

Well, you might start wondering, FREE? why do it for free - whereby you need to commit your time and energy for it! Yeah....I think this is a good question. Maybe you can start reading the first paragraph of this blog. :-)