I decided to launch my new company website (www.yrs2u.com) with its logo in Christmas, so that I can remember this date easier 25.12.10. :) Well, this is not the most important part of the launching. The most precious gift I had in life, is having the opportunity to meet many great people in life, that supported me a lot when I started my own company.
This is a "hibernation" week for me, spending most of my time at home(office) doing research and development related to talent management. Feeling so great.....lols! It has been my greatest interest and excitement to see how my customers are able to transform their ordinary employees into extra-ordinary performers through proper coaching, training and strategies. I like to explore many concepts in managing talent so that I can help some organization to increase their productivity and results.
1. To build participant’s self-confidence in public speaking
2. To unleash individual true potential through the journey of self-discovery
3. To provide useful interactive coaching for better career success
1. “Creating Your Stage!” ~ Public Speaking (1 day)
a. New Mindset of Master Communicator
b. The Art of Learning and Sharing
c. The Essence of Effective Speech
a. The journey of being “ME”!
b. Creating new scripts for my future
c. Presenting the X.O me.
a. Q&A session – learn together, hear together, and grow together.
Expected to be conducted in March, June, September, December 2011. It is a free revision for 2 years. Awesome right?!!!
1. Undergraduates especially year 2 onwards
2. Working graduates first 1-2 years
New Note:
Back to Malacca, my lovely hometown.
I heard someone told me "wisdom" means taking action on what I already knew, be it a right attitude, skills, or knowledge. Otherwise, I can learn and learn and learn and learn...... and become "intelligent", yet it doesnt serve me in life. A concept can be easily understood by an 8 years old kid (Praise others all the time!) , yet cannot be fulfilled by an 80 years old man (Blaming and accusing others all the time!). I understand but I didnt do it! sounds familiar? lols....
One of my favourite movie is "Facing the Giants" (2006) whereby the coach train up the team with his passion and determination, in return they did their best in every single battle they went into.
The best part is the "death crawl" where the coach challenges one of the key player to exceed his limitations and use his heart not his physical strengths to go through the tough moments, thats really inspired me. Sometimes i watch this part of the movie over and over again because it gaves me great inspiration and determination to work towards my goals in life.
When I was in the flight on my way to Kota Kinabalu, I got this thought of "think time" which I heard about few months ago.
I realised that my think time is always "in the air" lols...
I travel to KK every month once or twice, so most of the time i will take out my diary and start looking through my schedules and also do some planning stuff. Most of the time I got very good ideas about my future plans and also get creative ideas about my new training contents.
Think time is the time where I focus on my energy towards my mission, my goals and my achievements for the past few weeks. It also is a time I did some self-reflection about my passion in life...
Even though it is only a 2 hours kind of thinking and review each trip, I think this habit had been great for me when I was alone in my trip. For example, the new program "Transformation Starts from ME" training is actually came through part and parcel along my journy in the plane. Well, it is one of the "hot" program I had so far :)
I remember my mentor told me once that his Saturday morning is the "think time" for him, making him an effective person and brought better decision making for him the following weeks. I think mine just happen coincident, lols. What about you?
Yesterday listen to one of my friend talking about his work, the superior's expectation and how he went through his challenges for the past 1 week.
He told me that he is not good enough, he thinks he is performing under expectation, and he told me a lot of his weaknesses.....He felt that he does not deserve what he had now. On the other hand, I understand that he had improved a lot for the past 2 years, and he did awesome!!!
Sometimes we tends to be a 'victim' of our own life. Isnt we?
There are 4 processes to get what we want in life. And we actually already knew about it. This is what I learned from one of the warrior camp:-
It is like buying a burger by "drive through" at Mc Donald. First, we need to say it loud and precisely what we want through the mic, Secondly we drive our car towards the counter, Thirdly we must willing to pay for it, Lastly, to accept the burger we order!
Everyone might "stuck" at certain process thus they cant get what they want. When I am clear about my goal, what is my passion and mission for, what I want to achieve in 3 years time, I say/write it clearly and precisely. Then I work towards that goal with determination and persistency, and I must be willing to exchange my time and effort for that goals, finally when the rewards come, I must willing to open to accept it.
I believe my friend did all but the last one! So, after giving your best, graps your rewards, always remember to be an "Excellent Receiver"!
I had been thinking a lot.
Thinking a lot after attending the course on "Mission to Million".
Basically, not thinking a lot about the "million", it is about the "mission" - the true purpose of our life!
Million is like the "achievements", "monetary rewards", "assets", "success" or whatever you wan to name it, the physical and visible gains. The mission is about the "meaning","true purpose", "core values" attached to the success we want in life.
Sounds simple, yet makes me think a lot, haha...
When I heard so many people in the seminar had great mission in their life, I was impressed and blessed them. Felt happy for them. I think it is not because of the size of the mission that makes me think a lot, it is the "block" in my mind that what I want to manifest in this life. Minds dont bring me to anywhere, it "stuck" on this part. So I move to another part....
I had been feeling a lot.
Feeling a lot after realising many people around me is suffering, in many ways. Within a month, listening to more than 5 people sharing their hurts, revealing their wounds openly and expecting things will be better day after, possible happen? It touches my heart...feel it deep inside...
One question being asked which affected me a lot while constructing my mission is " What is the level of pain (ranking from lowest 1 to highest 5) will I feel if my mission is not being fulfilled?"
It struck me for few seconds.......then deep inside me there is an answer! Thats my actual mission in life. Bravo! Got it!
Understanding and live with true purpose (mission) which suits me gave me strength, confident, courage, determination and momentum to pursue my personal achievements (millions). Balancing my emotions (mission) with the right mind targets (millions) gave me peacefulness, joy for life and a sense of self-fulfillment along the journey.
Realising that millions are just the vehicles for me to add more values in other people's life through my mission is great, isnt it?
4 days of NWA program, I felt wonderful and fulfilled. It is something very new to me when people talk about earning passive income. Whatmore if there are a lot of bombastic words and jargon that I cannot understand well. The past few days were great because the methodologies and techniques explained in this seminar are easily understood.
There are a few things that I learn during this program:-
1.There are parents bringing their children as young as 10years old to attend such program. I think it is awesome! Kids at this age learning what is passive income???!!! Where am I when I was at 10years old?
2. What we want in life is the terminology called "have". Everyone is going after something that they want to have, yet this is very surfaced. It is our external world and materials gained. Often we forgotten that it is the "do" that bring us to this "have". So we started working very hard and do what it takes to achieve the goal. Somehow along the way, I still think it takes too much to get too little. Finally everything comes down to the "belief" in our inner world. It all started here, the
beliefs that we had for ourselves that will determine how much "have" we gain in life.
Beliefs -> Doing -> Having
3. The panel forum on the 3rd night was the best! We get to listen each of the speaker's view on success and money. It was around 2 hours. I could only share with you a few which "hits" me:-
Question: What is the core values that you believe in?1. I believe in integrity, doing things and speaking from the heart. The one that we lies the most is ourself! Living the true self makes you happy.
2. Integrity is doing things congruence within yourself when you acted externally. It is the source of power. You can be powerful even though you dont have the money.
Question: What do you want to be remember for?
1. I want to be remembered for as a good man, spectacular husband, great father, great friend and make a difference in everyone's life.
2. Helping people, I want to make an impact to the other people's lifes.
3. I want to help others to find their life purpose. My joy comes from seeing other's joy.
4. I believe in the power of love. By giving the love I have, I want to change everyone around me and also the world. I believe generiosity brings prosperity.
It's your life! What do you want to be remembered for ?
The ultimate goal in life is "love". Either you want to give your love to others, or it can be receiving all the love others offer to you. In the past, Gautama Buddha, Jesus, Nabi Mohammad, Mahatma Ghandi, Mother Teresa and many more, live their life by giving the love to the people....and they achieve their ultimate goal in life.
We might have different priority in who we want to offer our love. It can be "small" love, just for oneself, thinking only for yourself, and soon or later you are too attached with personal gain, then people quote you as "selfish". It can be "big" love, you care about the people you know, your family members, your friends, your colleagues, your spiritual associates and whoever ask for your help, and then you are being quoted as "kind". It can be "infinity" love, you are willing to give your services to every human being that is in need regardless of their races, nationality, educational level, gender or age - giving them your sincere smile, preaching them goodness, bring happiness to their inner world by sharing your life wisdom, and forgotten about your "self".
Check this out about "Happiness is not Outside you" by Dr. David R Hawkins http://youtube.com/watch?v=8P0xr6AThWQ&feature=related
I realised the truth in what my mentor once told me - "One way of motivating yourself is to motivate others". Through the recent M2M interview I realised that "One way of helping myself is to help others". Everyone that came for the interview had inspired me in some way - the zest in life, the strong beliefs in pursuing the goal, the breakthrough to achieve what they want, and also the eagerness to live their life to the fullest. It reflected to me many of my past experiences and actually boosted my motivation as well.
Honestly speaking, the M2M program is just a "pilot" test for me to help those that really think I can be their mentor guiding them along their career path. My initial plan is to provide a platform for undergraduates/graduates for continuous personal improvement - it can be in terms of their mindset, attitude, knowledge or skills which will enhanced their future undertakings. Of course, mentee need to go through their own personal breakthrough to achieve their goals, I am merely a "coach" to help.
As a start, I want to accept only 5 of the shortlisted candidate. After the interviews, I might take 6 -8 so that this "Career Success Circle" can be meaningful and effective for ideas-sharing. I would say the best part of this M2M program is to provide on-going mentoring through 121 / face to face coaching or telecasting facilitation. This is a individual coaching where I am willing to sacrifice my time to help those that really want to help themselves.
If I were offer such program, I will really do WIT (Whatever It Takes) to be one of the member, what more it is totally FREE!!! Somehow many does not grasp the opportunity to complete the first assignment and left out.....
Well, you might start wondering, FREE? why do it for free - whereby you need to commit your time and energy for it! Yeah....I think this is a good question. Maybe you can start reading the first paragraph of this blog. :-)
I think writing blogs had became a channel for me to share my "joy" with my fellow friends, hoping when you read it, it will give you some reflections in thoughts, bringing new insights in your life.
One of my favourite author, John C. Maxwell had always inpired me through his books. Whenever I read his book, the principles that he preaches is so close to my heart and it is like connected to the truth of life.
I want to share with you because writing blog is no more merely a way of expressing what I have in my mind, but more importantly to help you, who knows you might need it?
According to one of his book "winning with people", he said that there are 4 kinds of people when it comes to relationships. Check it out here:
1. Some people add values to other people's life. When we have such friends around us, we appreciate and enjoy their companionship. These people are adders. They normally add value to others intentionally, not by accident. I have many friends around me are adders. Whenever I am in difficulties, they are there to offer their help.
2. Some people subtract something from life. Anyway, because we are surrounded by a lot of negativity, we must tolerate such friends. Somehow, these people actually acted unintentionally. I have friends that actually looks good infront of me, but when I had some challenges in work, they will actually make it worst for me. They do not bear the burden together, they make it heavier.
3. Some people multiply something in life. I am glad that I had mentors and friends that actually lift me up most of time. When I decided to become a trainer, things just didnt work out for me for months. Fortunately one of friend gave me great support and told me that I must live with abundance and go with my passion. These people not only do it intentionally, but they are also strategic and skilled. If you have such people around you now, be blessed and take a time to write or call them to value them.
4. Some people divide something in life. These people always do it intentionally for personal gain. In another word, selfishness overrule them. They will take you down as low as they can so that they can be the "spotlight". Lucky to say, so far I dont have such people around me. But if I had, it is also a reflection of my inner world, I attracted him/her into my world. Normally these people damage their relationship with people.
So which category are you in?
1st January 2010, while re-arranging my old stuff, saw the book "The One minute millionaire" By Robert Allen which I bought 2-3 years ago. Finished read the book in 2 days. Impressed with what Robert Allen had shared, I surfed the net wanted to know more about him. To my delighted surprise, he will be one of the speaker in Malaysia National Achievers Congress, April 2010. So, I decided to go for it.... it seems like there is a "calling"!
Joining the Quantum Leap members, the next 2 years journey with them will be Awesome! I know I am going to enjoy and have a great and fulfilling year ahead and I want to share my growth and success with you, my fellow loyal reader (even though only a few of you, LOLS!) so that I can do my part to add values to your life and maybe inspired you to think of what you want in life! Commit to it!
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This year, I decided to form a team, consist of 3-5 committed person, to take charge of the school talk community service. For me this is a "reborn" project because I had stop it since 2007. Initially, I meet up with a few students of mine to make them understand the program so that they are committed to work with me for our so-called "mission" - to educate the right learning attitude for primary and secondary students, sharing the success studying method of "A" students, the key preparations before examinations, VAK memory methods, to create good life values and building good "kum cheng" with friends, classmates, teachers and parents.
You have your own answers in you! Here is the assignment for you:
1. Find a quiet place
2. Give some thoughts to your roots on what is important to you, why you want to pursue it?
3. Start thinking for yourself - as no one else but you will come out with the right answers
Very often, many of us have the ability to do, to achieve and to perform to the standards that we want, it is only the "fear" in us that had stop us in moving forward. According to my mentor, Dr Lawrence Walter Ng:
1st January 2010, it was a fresh new year for me. I spend this day reading a book at home. Feeling so energized and abundanced. It set my mindset right and determined to pursue my greater goal this year.